What's Wrong With True Love?
It's become unfashionable to talk of wanting to find love. When did that happen? It seems to have crept on us. We live in a time when younger generations see marriage as a ten year agreement, and when fidelity is looked down upon as a quaint tradition. We set up LoveInYour50s because we are comfortable with being unfashionable. Because we, like our members, believe it's important to find a life partner. One of the greatest things about being with the right person, is looking after them. People are social creatures rather than solitary. We excel as people when we have someone else to look after, and someone to look after us. It's comforting to know that someone is relying on you, and trusts you completely. We become stronger as creatures when we have that in our lives. That's not to say that people are weaker when alone, but rather that the opportunity to make someone else happy is something that can add an extra dimension in everyone's life.
Why This Site Works
The simple answer as to why this site is so successful has nothing to do with us. We just built the venue: it's the members that have come that have set the tone. The people that seem to be drawn here are a nice friendly bunch, and that's all there really is to it. Sometimes you walk into a restaurant or a bar and you feel a friendly vibe, whereas others feel cold and unfriendly. You can't put your finger on why, in either case, but you know you feel it. When people join LoveInYour50s, they seem to feel welcome and they seem to find it full of people who are similar to them. This puts people at ease and leaves them free to be themselves and enjoy the experience of meeting other singles. We have had a number of success stories and each one makes it worthwhile running this website. We hope we can add yours to the list!
Several recent members have spoken to us of how they felt a strong sense of shyness at the prospect of dating again. This is only natural if you've not dated for a long time. There is nothing wrong with being shy. It's not necessarily a weakness, unless it stops you from doing things that you actually want to do. Our site can make it easier to dip your toe back in to the water, as you can talk to people for as long as you want before actually meeting them. No one will pressure you or judge you here. You'll find that socialising is just like anything else in life - the more you do it the easier it becomes. Talking to several people can make a huge difference to confidence. So why not get started today?